Well, ok then....

Read the details.....Some how, regarding letting go, I missed this, "regrets, unfullfilled expectations, anger, the lifestyle you used to have, or even a routine." None of these ring true for me.

I think for me it's more basic. It is the "stuff". What to do with the things that belonged to the woman most precious to me. Perhaps the key is in not rushing myself. Over and over the author reminds me that it's my grief, my time, my process. Letting go, like everything else, will happen when it happens.

From spring '08, I think it's lysianthus but I'm not sure. I am certainly drawn to purple flowers: